He Likes Her, But He's Not Willing to Move Forward
He Broke Up With Her Because His Children Don't Like Her
Why Your Dating Game is Stuck at Beginner
He's Divorced, Or So He Says
A Guy With a Girlfriend is Not Good Boyfriend Material
Law of Attraction to Get You Married
Take the Pressure Off Valentine's Day
When a Man Says This...
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Alana says:
September 14, 2014 at 10:03 am
122: Well actually I didn’t say ‘I like lots of guys’, I’ve really liked very few guys in my life. And I didn’t describe exactly what it was about them (I did say they were confident betas usually, though) because what I like is based on me being more a relationship-oriented person than a “let’s sleep around and then see where it goes” kinda person. Thus what I like is not really useful info to guys who are learning to be successful players/gamers like Rom.
Some of the traits I like are not even very alpha or beta traits, IMO. I’ve only ever liked guys who are funny, for eg. Confidence is a turn-on, but then there are confident betas too. Sensitivity can be a v charming trait in men–I could be attracted to a guy without emotional sensitivity, but I would never love such a man. And having a stable job and a good heart are also, IMO, not very alpha or beta traits.
I feel alpha-ness is the most attractive when women aren’t thinking or reflecting much. I think/reflect quite a lot, and then that superficial attraction that the ‘alpha-ness’ fades, and I see more clearly what the person really is like. Is he treating me well? Will he make his partner happy in the LT? Does he treat pple with respect? Is he intelligent? etc. But many women don’t think like that and I think men have to know their prey well. Or just focus on the women who do like alphas.
Btw what does “HEB-M traits” stand for?
He Broke Up With Her Because His Children Don't Like Her
Why Your Dating Game is Stuck at Beginner
He's Divorced, Or So He Says
A Guy With a Girlfriend is Not Good Boyfriend Material
Law of Attraction to Get You Married
Take the Pressure Off Valentine's Day
When a Man Says This...
125
Alana says:
September 14, 2014 at 10:03 am
122: Well actually I didn’t say ‘I like lots of guys’, I’ve really liked very few guys in my life. And I didn’t describe exactly what it was about them (I did say they were confident betas usually, though) because what I like is based on me being more a relationship-oriented person than a “let’s sleep around and then see where it goes” kinda person. Thus what I like is not really useful info to guys who are learning to be successful players/gamers like Rom.
Some of the traits I like are not even very alpha or beta traits, IMO. I’ve only ever liked guys who are funny, for eg. Confidence is a turn-on, but then there are confident betas too. Sensitivity can be a v charming trait in men–I could be attracted to a guy without emotional sensitivity, but I would never love such a man. And having a stable job and a good heart are also, IMO, not very alpha or beta traits.
I feel alpha-ness is the most attractive when women aren’t thinking or reflecting much. I think/reflect quite a lot, and then that superficial attraction that the ‘alpha-ness’ fades, and I see more clearly what the person really is like. Is he treating me well? Will he make his partner happy in the LT? Does he treat pple with respect? Is he intelligent? etc. But many women don’t think like that and I think men have to know their prey well. Or just focus on the women who do like alphas.
Btw what does “HEB-M traits” stand for?