How Can I Convince My Boyfriend that I am Not Cheating On Him?
Do Men Think Of Other Women In Bed?
Does He Mean Those Things He Says?
How Can I Get My Boyfriend Back?
How to Know if this Shy Guy Has a Crush on Me?
My Husband Puts His Family Before Me. What Do I Do?
How To Make a Man Commit?
Why Do Men to Look at Porn While in a Relationship?
Signs of a Possessive Boyfriend and How to Deal With Him?
How to Approach Shy Guys?
How Can You Tell When a Guy is Flirting With You?
How to Deal With a Cynical Boyfriend?
Why is My Boyfriend So Insecure?
This might get a little complicated, but here we go.
I do think that male and female people work differently, in overlapping spectra. I do believe that traditional roles worked well for many people because they recognised the natural differences between the sexes. As an atheist I regard the bible as a rather fine analysis on how to make a functioning society.
However, I do not believe that being born with a vagina means you must follow the 50s definition of a female life. The same for a guy. I do not wish to be the patriarch for a nuclear family, that boat sailed for me, AND legally speaking is now a very bad option for a guy. High risk, low reward. I can see that life as a housewife could be very unfulfilling for many women (though they overestimate the joys of a 45 year career, as experienced by men).
So I am an egalitarian but I’m not blind to differences between the sexes. So if a woman can legitimately do the job as well as a man, I’m fine with that. If she can’t, then I don’t see that we should drop standards just for some bs idea of 50:50 male:female or its unfair (but only in nice jobs). No quotas, no AA. Just a world open to people making their own choices and accepting the limitations that they have (I’ll never be a basketball player, or gymnast) and the consequences of their choices.
Treat men and women as adults. Set sensible incentives (no more baby mommas as a lifestyle – it’s no good for kids, no good for society). No more misandric family court – shared custody, no alimony for life. Binding pre-nups with appropriate safe guards (informed consent). No more paternity trapping men (we need vasalgel) ASAP.
Do Men Think Of Other Women In Bed?
Does He Mean Those Things He Says?
How Can I Get My Boyfriend Back?
How to Know if this Shy Guy Has a Crush on Me?
My Husband Puts His Family Before Me. What Do I Do?
How To Make a Man Commit?
Why Do Men to Look at Porn While in a Relationship?
Signs of a Possessive Boyfriend and How to Deal With Him?
How to Approach Shy Guys?
How Can You Tell When a Guy is Flirting With You?
How to Deal With a Cynical Boyfriend?
Why is My Boyfriend So Insecure?
This might get a little complicated, but here we go.
I do think that male and female people work differently, in overlapping spectra. I do believe that traditional roles worked well for many people because they recognised the natural differences between the sexes. As an atheist I regard the bible as a rather fine analysis on how to make a functioning society.
However, I do not believe that being born with a vagina means you must follow the 50s definition of a female life. The same for a guy. I do not wish to be the patriarch for a nuclear family, that boat sailed for me, AND legally speaking is now a very bad option for a guy. High risk, low reward. I can see that life as a housewife could be very unfulfilling for many women (though they overestimate the joys of a 45 year career, as experienced by men).
So I am an egalitarian but I’m not blind to differences between the sexes. So if a woman can legitimately do the job as well as a man, I’m fine with that. If she can’t, then I don’t see that we should drop standards just for some bs idea of 50:50 male:female or its unfair (but only in nice jobs). No quotas, no AA. Just a world open to people making their own choices and accepting the limitations that they have (I’ll never be a basketball player, or gymnast) and the consequences of their choices.
Treat men and women as adults. Set sensible incentives (no more baby mommas as a lifestyle – it’s no good for kids, no good for society). No more misandric family court – shared custody, no alimony for life. Binding pre-nups with appropriate safe guards (informed consent). No more paternity trapping men (we need vasalgel) ASAP.